When anxious · 10 minutes
How to practise Tonglen when anxious.
Tonglen — a practice from Tibet is The Tibetan practice of breathing in suffering, and breathing out relief, and the wider mind-training that grew around it. Here is how to bring it into your life when the chest tightens and the thoughts will not slow.
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Step 1
Move the body half a metre
Stand up if you were sitting; sit down if you were standing. Anxiety often holds its grip through posture. Break the posture first; the thought softens after.
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Step 2
Speak the teaching to yourself once, out loud
Say it quietly: The Tibetan practice of breathing in suffering, and breathing out relief, and the wider mind-training that grew around it. The tradition is older than your panic. Letting it speak in your own voice gives it a small foothold.
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Step 3
Do one act of the practice in under a minute
One breath cycle. One line of journal. One slow sip. Tonglen is not a long ladder right now; it is one rung you reach for to keep from falling.
Most of Tonglen is not about banishing what you feel. It is about staying in the room with it long enough that it changes shape on its own.
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