Your philosophy is
Taoism
The art of not forcing.
You sense that most struggle is self-made — that the wiser move is often to stop pushing and flow with the current. Taoism is your path: effortless action, simplicity, and the soft strength of water that wears down stone without a fight.
“The Tao that can be spoken is not the eternal Tao. The name that can be named is not the eternal name.” — Lao Tzu
“A journey of a thousand miles begins beneath one's feet.” — Lao Tzu
“When the best leader's work is done, the people say, "We did it ourselves."” — Lao Tzu