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13 Quotes About Discipline & Self-Control

Freedom, the Stoics insisted, is the child of discipline — not its enemy. These quotes are about the small daily acts of self-government that compound into a life.

“Without doubt, the mind is restless and difficult to control. But it can be controlled by practice and by dispassion.”

— Krishna The Bhagavad Gita

“You can keep going for years on willpower and caffeine. The body keeps the score, and one day it sends the bill. Pay the smaller bill now.”

— paraphrased Bessel van der Kolk Burnout

“The mind is restless and difficult to restrain, but it is subdued by practice.”

— Krishna Dharma

“The strawberry, the blue solar water, the dewdrop — these are tools the Unihipili likes. They are not the practice. The practice is the willingness to clean.”

— Dr. Ihaleakala Hew Len Hoʻoponopono

“Discipline equals freedom.”

— Jocko Willink Mental Toughness

“Front-load the suck. Do the hardest thing first while willpower is highest. The day rolls downhill from there.”

— Mark Divine Mental Toughness

“There is timing in everything. Timing in strategy cannot be mastered without a great deal of practice.”

— Miyamoto Musashi Mental Toughness

“A man is what he repeatedly does. Excellence, then, is not an act but a habit.”

— Will Durant (paraphrasing Aristotle) Mental Toughness

“When you breathe in, you take in someone else's pain. When you breathe out, you send out relief. The practice is about reversing the habit of avoidance.”

— Pema Chodron Tonglen

“If you want others to be happy, practice compassion. If you want to be happy, practice compassion.”

— Dalai Lama Tonglen

“Discipline is not pleasing the teacher; it is keeping the work in your own hands.”

— Chogyam Trungpa Tonglen

“In meditation, do not look for a particular kind of experience. The point of the practice is to be present to whatever arises.”

— Chogyam Trungpa Tonglen

“I sing because I cannot remember a time before I sang. The practice has eaten my life. The life has eaten the practice. There is no separation.”

— Milarepa Tonglen